Thursday 8 March 2007

post sixteen - new life update

It's been hard to adjust to my new life.

Despite being very ill over the past couple of weeks, with flu and tonsillitis and everything else thrown in, I have had a bit of a rough time.

When I first moved into my new house I had mixed emotions. It probably didn't help that my Dad came to help me move, and I hadn't seen him for ages. After he left I fell ill and got rather depressed about everything going on.

Obviously while I was sick and trying to get life moving again I was still getting a bucketload of abuse from the Ex. Today for example, I had 8 missed calls from him within the space of 15 minutes, his reason for calling being that he wants to meet up for a coffee and a 'chat'. This isn't unusual for him, although I do know that he has gone back to the Bitch he left me for. Why she is happy for him to do this is beyond me.

I have started to catch up on all the work I missed, although it has been a struggle. I'm watching all of my classmates struggling, and they haven't had the emotional stress that I have, so I either hide it very well or I'm missing something...

I'm also starting to go out again, and do the things I love, maybe it's time for a picture...



I love living in Wales.

4 comments:

jfhkugasd said...

I love living in Wales to!

If your ex continues to pester you, say you'll go to the police. You don't have to do it, but it might make him leave you alone.

Take care of yourself, and I hope you feel much better soon.

une anglaise, aka 'Jim' said...

I have told him, and he just ignores it.

The problem is that he is pestering me in a nice way. I can't go to the police and say that my Ex is hounding me to go for a cup of coffee... they would laugh at me!

I have gone to the university about him and they're dealing with it. as a consequence, he is finding it difficult to get accommodation for the next academic year. I'm not sorry.

I feel a lot better now, thank you!

Moi said...

What a lovely picture ! I wish I lived in Wales

Anonymous said...

Thanx for the comment. I am going to Cardiff soon to see Sunderland play. Don't have to appologise for supporting Coventry,I'm sure they will come good soon!!