My Ex is now engaged to the ´Tart He Left Me For´.
They have been together for less time than for how long I was with him. It´s a weird feeling, especially since my best friend is also getting married and I´m going to be a bit part of the wedding. And I´m still not sure about how I feel about him. I just haven´t been able to move on, no matter how hard I´ve tried. I´m still so bitter about the whole thing. For a while it felt like I was ready to move on, and meet new people and have an actual life. Then he flipped out when he lost a couple of CDs, remembered I still had some house keys, called me to demand them back, and when I denied all knowledge of them, he stormed down to my new house and threatened to set fire to it. He spent 30 hours in a police cell, and I head back to Somerset to get away for a while, only to end up almost killing myself in a car accident.
I think I´m still angry. I think I could even say I hate this man. And until I can say that I have no feelings towards him at all, I´m not going to want to meet anyone. And as I´m still living out of a suitcase (thankfully in a nice flat with no German Shepherds) it´s not going to happen for a while.
Sigh.
I just wish I wasn´t torturing myself with facebook stalking. Booo.
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- une anglaise, aka 'Jim'
- I am a Erasmus Student, half way through my year abroad. Now in Granada, Spain.
4 comments:
Oh you poor thing- your experience was worse than mine (the Sod was no firestarter) but I feel the same as you do a lot of the time...but do block him on Facebook; I did that 9 months ago and it was the best thing I ever did.
It is perfectly natural to have these muddled up feelings about him. And I agree with han, block him.
Bloody Facebook.
OK, he´s blocked, she´s blocked, I´ve deleted all of his friends and i already feel much better.
Thanks!
ummm, thanks?
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